Give your child lots of nurturing physical attention: It seems simple, but children like hugs, cuddles and holding hands. Show them the affection they desire.
Offer a variety of activities for them to do:Children are more likely to misbehave when they are bored, so provide lots of engaging indoor and outdoor activities for your child.
Set clear limits on your child’s behavior:Sit down and have a family discussion on the family rules in your home. Let your child know what the consequences will be if they break the rules.
Don’t feed into their emotional outbursts:If your child misbehaves, stay calm and give them clear instruction to stop misbehaving and tell them what you would like them to do instead.
Have realistic expectations:All children misbehave at times, and it is inevitable that you will have some discipline challenges.
Don’t forget to take care of yourself:It is difficult to be a calm, relaxed parent if you are stressed, feeling anxious or down. Try to find time every day—or at least once a week—to let yourself unwind or do something that you enjoy.
Don’t forget to give your child positive attention:Your kids need positive attention. If they do not receive positive attention from family, they may choose to seek out negative attention.
Guide your child through their mistakes & weaknesses:Rather than focusing on weaknesses, find ways to assist your child in developing to their full potential. When encouraged, children will acquire talents to compensate for any deficiencies.
Avoid negative emotional reactions to your child’s behavior:If your child has problems with control, negative responses—like anger, sarcasm and ridicule—will only make them feel worse.
Don’t ever give up on your child:All of your child’s problems can be worked through with humor, goodwill and perseverance. With proper parental support, even the most troublesome teens can become amazing people.